Yeah you see the title correctly. Relationship break ups in my opinion are never easy at all. I think the hardest ones to process are friendship ones. Yup I dont care what anyone says friendship break up are the worse. One minute you chatting with a person everyday and next day it’s all like it never happened.
I always wonder was we ever friends to begin with like seriously or was it just a one sided friendship 🤔. Cause baby let me tell you those are the worse.
Also was it a season 🤔 as well. I am learning at this grown age of 42 heading to chapter 43 that there is not much to explain when it comes to certain relationships no longer being.
I would sit and think like what did I do wrong and if I did something wrong how could I fix it but than I realized it was nothing to fix. The missed calls the not shouting you out or checking in. No Happy birthdays nothing.
Its ok right cause maybe that relationship served it’s purpose. That’s what im learning in this journey that certain things have an expiration date.
Am I still grieving of course but will it stop what im doing absolutely not as the show goes on..
This really resonated with me. Friendship breakups don’t always get the same acknowledgment as romantic ones, but they can hurt just as deeply. There’s a different kind of grief that comes with losing someone you never expected to lose. But girl, one thing I’ve learned is that not every ending needs an explanation!!!!
Sometimes people are only meant to be part of a chapter, not the whole story. That doesn’t make the connection any less real…it just means it fulfilled its purpose.Give yourself permission to grieve, but also give yourself permission to keep growing. The people who are meant to walk with you in this next season will find their way to you. I want to see more of your blogs!!